FAMILY THERAPY
WITH CHILDREN
Family Therapy with Children
“A securely attached child will store an internal working model of a responsive, loving, reliable care-giver, and of a self that is worthy of love and attention and will bring these assumptions to bear on all other relationships.”
— John Bowlby
Play is your child’s natural language
Children express their thoughts, emotions, and experiences through play. While adults use language, children are still developing this ability.
Most adults are capable of sitting across from me and verbally sharing their thoughts and feelings. However, I wouldn't expect a child to do this, nor would I ask them to do this.
Instead, I provide a wide range of toys, games, art supplies, and other materials that encourage self-expression and creativity.
And I do this with families as well. In order to do the work of family therapy, we have to be able to speak the child’s language. So we start with play.
What can I expect?
Family therapy sessions often start after I have done some individual work with your child or children. Establishing safety and the therapeutic relationship with the child provides a strong foundation for family work.
When it is determined that the child is ready for family therapy, the sessions are based on the individual needs of the family. The therapist may have directive interventions for the family or the therapist may be helping the parents learn how to have special playtimes with their child based on Child-Parent Relationship Therapy.
The focus of the sessions is on building attachment and enhancing attunement.
How will all of this help my family?
Family therapy using play can be beneficial in a variety of situations, as it provides a flexible and engaging approach to addressing a range of challenges within the family unit. It can be particularly helpful in situations in which there are communication difficulties, behavioral issues, family transitions, grief and loss, trauma or abuse, parent-child relationship issues, and sibling conflict. Family therapy helps in the following ways.
Understanding Family Dynamics
Family therapy allows the therapist to observe and understand family dynamics in action. It helps identify patterns of interaction, communication styles, and areas that may need attention or improvement.
Improved Communication & Emotional Expression
Family therapy using play provides a non-threatening and natural way for family members to communicate. It can help family members express themselves more easily, especially when verbal communication is challenging.
Enhanced Bonding
Family therapy using play fosters positive interactions and strengthens the emotional bonds among family members. Engaging in activities together can promote a sense of connection and shared experiences.
Problem-solving Skills
Family therapy using play often involves games and activities that require problem-solving and collaboration. This can help family members develop and improve their problem-solving skills as a team.
Coping Skills Development & Behavioral Changes
Family therapy using play helps individuals, especially children, develop coping skills. Learning how to express and manage emotions through play can contribute to better emotional regulation and reduced behavioral issues.
It would be an honor and privilege
to work with your family
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